Friday, April 18

Reflection

At the risk of sounding like my friend Amanda's blog (which I do love), I'm having a reflective type of day. My high school is doing Fiddler on the Roof this weekend. My mom asked me if I wanted to go and I told her I couldn't. The memories and emotions I have tied to that show from when I did it in HS were just too much. It got me to thinking....

What happened to all those friends you swore you would keep in touch with? Regardless of it was in HS or college, there were people who you were always with that are no longer in your life. What are they doing now? Would you still be friends if you had done ___ or tried ___? If you reconnected would you still want to be their friend or just let it go? Who's fault was it that you are not in contact anymore? Sure, everyone gets busy, life happens and people go their own ways.

In addition, what decisions have you made or wish you would have made if you could do it over again? What did you do right? What did you wish you could have done or should have done? There are many things I regret doing or not doing. They all make me think what if? I know you can't live that way, but don't you have those days when you just wonder what could have be different? Wonder why things ended up the way they did? Well, I'm having one of those days....

1 comment:

CincyWorkin'Mama said...

I've had those same thoughts. For instance, it's amazing to me how little I see and talk to you! Hello? We were inseperable for a time in college.

I guess all we can really do is take stock of who and what is in our lives and prioritize what is most important.

Talk to you soon!